Sunday, 19 December 2010

Is it Love or Lust ? Don't redefine the two words...

Love is unconditional
Most discussed topic in life- Love! Majority of soap operas revolve around it. Here, love starts at first sight or with the girl just tripping down, into the arms of hero. This most demanded & passionate love creates lot of tension, competition, greed, revenge and even crime. This very cherishing feeling of  love in such serials, expires as soon as a third person steps into the couple’s life. The big dream castle of so-called love collapses with a little tremor of distrust or infatuation created for someone else.
In such operas-The love is being portrayed as ultimate lust for opposite sex. It’s matter of egoist achievement
It’s similar to Ravan’s love for Sitaji or Suparankha’s desire for Shri Ram. 
Our mythology termed this as “Rakshas Pravriti”
or in the modern era we may call it –“Animal Instinct”!
Love means much more.. It can not be "id" only!
Need to review our Indian ideology-The sequence of Purusharthas. 
“Ab toh songs mein bhi Ishq 'Ibadat' ki jagah 'kamina' hone laga hai.. Kya yehi humari sabhyata hai?”
 It’s time to judge our feeling, on our own.
Where are we heading?Aren’t we heading towards our degeneration?Our cultural degradation?
Don’t redefine LOVE as LUST. .These two are anonymous..

Love is worship!
“Pyar upaasana hai—Vaasana nahi..”
Ishwar Bhakti, Aastha, Vatsalaya, Desh prem, Karuna are part of the word love only. Why not projecting them to world?
Love is as sacred as worship.. It’s pure.. It can’t be bound in boundaries of adjectives. It can’t be created nor destroyed. Motives can never be its foundation. Situations change people come & go in life. We love something and if it goes; we feel down & hurt. Soon, we learn to let it go, we stop thinking of it, finding it wasn’t meant to be ours. But how can somebody hurt back?
How people take revenge for not achieving, what they want in love? No one in this  world is bound to feel the way you think he or she should.
People are trying to snatch love...committing Crimes to achieve it! Kidnapping for love.. Captive life can never be pleasure for anybody.. Bandhano main bandh ke pyaar ka vriksh kaise vikasit hoga? Murder for love? or Is it murder of love & humanity!
How can love be CAUSE of destructive activity?  Isn’t it shameful to define our Lust or Id  as love?
Are we animals or human beings?
Love pyramid
Since eras, Love has been a beautiful feeling, which enhances our personality.Which binds humans like a pearls in a string.. Which encourage to sacrifice 'self' for a single smile of loved one.
Then why does EGO overlap our so SACRED feeling of life-"love"?
What’s so insulting in loosing for someone, whom you love…
Think who the winner is? It’s your love only.. Then, what makes you so impatient & egoistic?
Does proximity is the end which we seek in love?
Off course we want to be near to our choice but if not so…
Here comes the role of wisdom.. Say if we hurt whom we love but whom we couldn't acquire..
Who will feel the aftermath? Who is the biggest victim? Who is being hurt..?
It’s WE ourselves. Isn’t it?
This means to be victorious in love-appeasement of our loved one is most important. His/her freedom is most important.
To be a nice human being we must express love in its other forms too.. Need to decentralize our id into creative 'likes & love for other things-God, Parents, Work, Aims, Motherland, Humanity, Nature anything that is important in our lives..'
Stop before it’s too late. Time to think what we are achieving by our ids..? 
Try to feel the satisfaction, which we get, when without selfish motive- we give, give & give to see a flash of smile on someone’s face. The mere shine in the other one’s eyes is more than a life’s treasure…
The best portion of a man’s life, is, his little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and unintentional love... 

This was an article which I wrote when I came across number of NEWS regarding increasing crimes related to what is called  "Crime of Passion".
Hope my lines will not be used take out any
Inferences regarding my personal life....
Although above article reflects my ideology but it doesn't include any personal-life experience.