सुसंस्कृत सक्षम समर्पित नारी=सुदृढ़ समाज

"यत्र नार्यस्तु पूज्यन्ते रमन्ते तत्र देवताः 

यत्रैतास्तु न पूज्यन्ते सर्वास्तत्राफलाः क्रियाः "

लोकतंत्र को और मजबूत बनाने के लिए विधायी संस्थाओं में नारी शक्ति का प्रतिनिधित्व सुनिश्चित करना अत्यावश्यक है। 

नारी तू नारायणी...

नारी है शक्ति स्वरूपा... 

नारी है जगतजननी ये हम सुनते आए हैं...

इस बात में कोई दो राय नहीं कि अगर सुसंस्कृत, सुशिक्षित, संकल्पित, राष्ट्र के प्रति समर्पित, सक्षम, दायित्व बोध से परिचित नारी को समस्याओं का समाधान ढूंढने का अवसर मिलेगा, निर्णय प्रक्रिया में उचित स्थान मिलेगा तो, वह अवश्य ही स्वर्णिम इतिहास रच देगी। 

आरक्षित होना मुझे कभी भी समानता का आधार नहीं लगता पर अगर सामाजिक परिस्थितियों की वजह से आरक्षण का सहारा लेना ही पड़े, तो प्रतिनिधित्व करने का अवसर उन शक्ति स्वरूपाओ को मिलना चाहिए- जिनकी शक्ति और सामर्थ्य को, संस्कारों के बोध से, वह स्वयं मर्यादित करना जानती हो। मात्र कुतर्क कर स्वातंत्र्य की बोली ना बोले, अपितु सर्व समाज के लिए जिसके हृदय में ममत्व हो, जो स्वच्छंदता और स्वतंत्रता में भेद करना भलीभांति जानती हो। 

जो अपने gender को नहीं अपितु, अपनी योग्यता को किसी भी स्थान को पाने का साधन समझे। जिसे यह पता हो कि पद अथवा सामर्थ्य को पाने के बाद निष्पक्षता, निडरता और निश्चल भाव से जन प्रतिनिधित्व करना, उसका दायित्व है।  

आधी आबादी नहीं वह संपूर्ण समाज का कल्याण करने हेतु अपने सामर्थ्य का प्रयोग करे। जिसमें निर्णय क्षमता हो, जो दायरों को पुन: परिभाषित करना जानती हो, जिसमें नयी राह गढ़ने की क्षमता हो पर, सिर्फ इसलिए लीक से परे नहीं सोचे या कहें, क्यूंकि उसे बंधन मुक्त होना है। बल्कि इसलिए सोचे या कहें क्यूंकि उसे लगता हो कि यह आनेवाली पीढ़ियों के लिए एक बेहतर समाजिक परिवेश देने में सहायक होगा। 

जिसे जीवन के कटु सत्य का अनुभव हो पर कुंठा और द्वेष भाव, जिसके हृदय मे घर ना कर पाया हो। 

प्रत्येक व्यक्ति अद्वितीय, अद्भुत और अनोखा है। हर नारी को स्वयं पर गर्व होना चाहिए पर, अहंकार नहीं। 

सहारा ना लेना उसका उद्देश्य हो जब तक कि परिस्थितियों को वो स्वयं सम्भाल सके, पर विचारों के आदान-प्रदान और परामर्श का मार्ग सदैव खुला रखना होगा। नारी और पुरुष कोई शत्रु नहीं अपितु समाज के दो ध्रुव हैं, जिनके परस्पर सहयोग से सामाजिक सौहार्द बना रहता है। शिव और शक्ति, श्रीकृष्ण और रुक्मिणी जी, माता सीता और  प्रभु श्री राम, श्री हरि और माँ लक्ष्मी.. हमारी अध्यात्मिक चेतना में, दोनों- स्त्री और पुरुष एक दूसरे के पूरक हैं, सहयोगी हैं। किसी भी प्रतिस्पर्द्धा के द्योतक नहीं। 

जो नारी किसी की पुत्री, पत्नी, मित्र, संबंधी होने का सहारा ले अपने सामर्थ्य को प्रदर्शित करने की पहली सीढ़ी न बनाए, ऐसी होनी चाहिए जनप्रतिनिधि। किसी परिवार का होना, गलत नहीं, पर योग्यता के आधार पर स्वस्थ प्रतिस्पर्धा करने का माद्दा होना चाहिए।

अगर स्वयं को मातृशक्ति कहलाना अच्छा लगता है, तो माँ भगवती सी शक्ति, समझ, सहनशीलता, क्षमा करने की क्षमता और अपने प्रत्येक निर्णय पर अडिग रहने की कला और पराजय को स्वीकारने की शक्ति होनी चाहिए। 

निर्णय के पीछे आवेश नहीं अपितु पुख्ता कारण हो और जिसे संपूर्ण ब्रहमांड के समक्ष निडरता और आत्मविश्वास के साथ अकेले प्रस्तुत करने का नारी में साहस हो। 

निर्णय सही या गलत हो सकते हैं पर स्वार्थ से, द्वेष से, भय से प्रेरित नहीं होने चाहिए, निर्णय सदैव समग्र चिंतन तथा उसकी परिणति के पाश्चात्य होनेवाले परिवर्तनों को अपनी क्षमता के अनुरूप तोलने के पश्चात लेने चाहिए। 

विधायिका (राजनीति) कोई आजीविका अथवा सामाजिक प्रतिष्ठा पाने का साधन नहीं बल्कि सेवा करने का माध्यम है। 

पर यहाँ सेवा और राष्ट्र के प्रति समर्पण को परिभाषित करना अत्यंत अवश्यक है, अगर सामाजिक दायित्वों से विमुख होकर, अपने सांसारिक धर्म का निर्वहन न करने को, कोई समर्पण समझने की भूल करे तो, वो अवश्य ही मातृभूमि का ऋण लेकर इस संसार से जाएगा। 

कोई अगर इस धरा पर आया है तो उसे षोडश कलाओं में निपुण होने की पूर्ण कोशिश करनी चाहिए। 

संपूर्णता बिना, स्वतंत्रता किसी भी मार्ग पर, सांसारिक व आध्यात्मिक मार्ग मे अग्रसर होने के लिए, प्रयाप्त नहीं। 

साध्वी की भांति सेवा करनी है, तो समस्त भोग विलासिता के साधनों का परित्याग कर, चका चौंध और छपास-दिखास से परे होना होगा और अगर आज के परिवेश में यह सम्भव नहीं तो प्रत्येक सांसारिक दायित्व का निर्वहन कर, अपने समय का सदुपयोग कर, स्वयं को निर्लिप्त रखते हुए कार्य/ सेवा करेंगे, तो सन्यासी से ज्यादा गृहस्थ रह, जीवन में वैराग्य प्राप्त कर, मुक्ति मार्ग पर अग्रसर होंगे। 

सेवा--दान नहीं, स्पर्श नहीं...सेवा यथासम्भव सहायता करना तो है ही, पर सेवा वो है जो आनेवाली पीढ़ियों का भविष्य सुनिश्चित कर सके। सामजिक परिकल्पना को सुदृढ़ कर सके।

समाज के प्रति समर्पित सेवाभावी व्यक्ती पर समाज को इतना विश्वास होना चाहिए कि वह सुनेगा और जो उत्तम से उत्तम कर सकता होगा, वो करेगा। 

आरक्षण के बाद भी अगर सरपंच-पति, पार्षद-पति, विधायक-पति सत्ता की बागडोर संभालेंगे तो यह सही मायने में प्रभावशाली नहीं होगा। जिसे पदभार मिले, वहीं उस कार्य को, अपनी समझ से करे, न कि कोई दूसरा।

अगर जीवन के एकाकीपन को दूर करने के लिए हम भीड़ में हैं और स्वयं को समाजसेवी समझ रहे हैं तो यह हमारी बड़ी भूल है। कोई भी कार्य, सामाजिक दायित्व निर्वाह करते हुए भी, हमारे सीमित समय और साधनों मे प्राथमिकता हो, तो हम उसके प्रति समर्पित है, अन्यथा वो मात्र एक विकल्प है, संकल्प नहीं। और जो कार्य "संकल्प नहीं हो" तो समय व्यतीत होने और परिस्थितियों के बदलने के साथ बोझ लगने लगता है और मैं मानती हूँ कि नारी को अधिकार प्राप्ति की चाह में, किसी बोझ के नीचे दबने की, कोई अवश्यकता नहीं। जीवन में किसी भी कार्य का चयन करना हो तो, विचार करने के बाद जो अंतःकरण को ठीक लगे उसे चुने, चाहे उस राह में अग्रसर होने के लिए कोई आपको प्रोत्साहित करे या नहीं। मार्ग और दिशा चुनने के पश्चात्‌ लौटने की या मुड़कर पीछे देखने की अभिलाषा लक्ष्य प्राप्ति में बाधक होती है। इसलिए जैसे अर्जुन ने मछली की आँख के लक्ष्य को साधा था वैसे ही प्रत्येक जीवन लक्ष्य को साधना चाहिए। चाहे वह सेवा हो या समाज में अपनी भूमिका निभाना या फिर मातृभूमि एवं सामाजिक ऋणों को चुकाने का प्रयास। 

नारी का प्रतिनिधित्व मात्र महिलाओं के लिए नहीं, समस्त समाज और संसार के लिए होना चाहिए। अगर ऐसे सुदृढ़ विचार, परिपक्व मानसिकता और सांसारिक शिष्टाचार की समझवाली नारी को प्रतिनिधित्व मिलेगा, तो निःसंदेह समाज का कल्याण होगा।

ऐसी नारी को सामाजिक, आर्थिक, प्रशानिक शक्ति मिलेगी तो निसंदेह ही हमारे विकसित भारत के लक्ष्य की प्राप्ति में वो गति लाएगी और भारत माता का वैभवशाली इतिहास पुनः स्थापित होगा। 

नारी आरक्षण गर बैसाखी नहीं अपितु स्वयं की क्षमताओ को संपूर्णता देने का माध्यम है और उससे अगर योग्यता के आधार पर बेटियों को अवसर मिलेगा तो हमें इसका पूर्ण समर्थन करने में कोई संकोच नहीं होना चाहिए। 

भक्ति की शक्ति

 

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Poha

Greetings on the occasion of World Poha Day!!

Health benefits of Poha :- 

🥗Indian nutrient dense, light breakfast made of beaten parboiled rice- Rice flakes.

🥗It's Pan-India dish.

🥗Prominently eaten in the states like-

Maharashtra, Gujarat, Rajasthan, Odisha, WestBengal, Madhya Pradesh, Kerala Telangana, Karnataka, TamilNadu &Goa.

🥗Easily digestible. 

🥗Has long satiety value, thus helps you feel full for a longer time. 

🥗Great probiotic as it's made by fermented parboiled paddy. 

🥗Good source of healthy carbohydrates. Rich in fibre

🥗Vital source of iron & vitamin B12 🥗Beneficial for pregnant women & children. 

🥗Prevents anemia.

🥗Good for elderly people as it's easy to digest, rich in vitamins, doesn’t cause bloating.

🥗Good weight loss diet. 

Nutritious, have high satiety value and low in Glycemic Index. 

Apart from a good breakfast it has a connection with cultural practice in Maharashtra. In some Maharashtrian families, the formal meeting of the boy and girl for marriage prospects is referred to as Kande-pohe or Chaha-pohe. There’s even a song called Kande-Pohe from the Marathi movie Sanai Chaughade.

Legends related to Lord Krishna indicate that poha is at least 5000yrs old snack.

Eat Poha...Stay Healthy!!

Shreephal

 "Shree-phal" - Coconut.

Shreephal or Coconut is a symbol of prosperity and goodluck. All auspicious occasion are marked with coconut breaking ceremony. May be because of its immense nutritive value.

🌰Coconut adds flavour to Indian gravies or dishes. Coconut water is often used as a refreshing drink. In Southern India, coconut oil is used as basic edible oil. Chutney accompanies most recipes.

🌰Coconut is a natural stress buster. Cooking grated coconut in curries with spices like cardamom, cinnamon, ginger, cloves, cumin, improves digestion and metabolism.

🌴Health benefits of coconut🌴

Significant anti-ageing agent - It is an effective antioxidant. 

🌴Good for bone health-

Being rich in minerals like potassium, manganese, and selenium it's good for bone health. 

🌴Keeps connective tissue healthy & strong-

Coconut water has been used as a medicinal tonic to sports drink because of its high content of potassium and antioxidants. It keeps the connective tissue hydrated and strong.

🌴Helps is maintaining electrolyte balance-

Coconut water is the natural way to replenish the supply of electrolytes in our body and prevent dehydration 

🌴Prevents acidity- Coconut water being bland & alkaline in nature helps prevent acidity. 

🌴Anti-carcinogenic properties.

🌴Prevents flatulence & indigestion. 

The fats present in coconut oil are said to possess antimicrobial properties.

  🌴Improves BMR

Regular consumption of coconut water increases the metabolism rate which helps to burn sugar and lose fat faster.

🌴Keeps Kidneys healthy

Coconut water also helps in dissolving kidney stones-  Potassium plays a key role in urine alkalizing and preventing formation of kidney stones.

🌴Ease digestion. 

Mineral like calcium, manganese and zinc, essential oils and high fibre content help in  aiding digression.  Manganese present in coconut helps in proper the metabolism of carbohydrates, proteins, and cholesterol

🌴Helpful for diabetic patients 

Being low in glycolic index, coconut water helps in controlling diabetes. 

🌴Rich in good cholesterol

Abot 50% of saturated fat in coconut comes from lauric acid, which can help raise levels of heart-protective HDL.

It has ability to improve blood circulation, widen the blood vessels which get restricted due to the formation of plaque within them and helps the blood to flow smoothly through them.

🌴Manages Hypertension

Potassium present in Coconut results in lowering  of blood pressure.

Potassium helps balancing sodium levels in the body and regulate blood pressure.

🌴RBC in blood-

Being rich in copper and iron help form red blood cells, as well as selenium, an important antioxidant that protects your cells.

🌴Good for skin-

 Rich in antioxidants it delays skin ageing too. 

🌴Coconut milk is being used these days to be as substitute of milk in diet of patients with lactose intolerance. 

🌴High Satiety value-

High in fibre content helps person feel full for longer time.

🌴Natural Detox-

Its traditionally used in Prasad & ate during fasting. 

Eat food in Calm & Cozy Atmosphere.

 "भोजन और भजन एकांत और शांतिमय स्थान पर करना चाहिए..”

Eat food in Calm & cozy Atmosphere!!"- There is hidden logic behind this Adage.

#NutritionMonth #NutritionWeek 

Before explaining the reason for above adage. Lets first have a look at the Digestive process taking place in our body. This will help in resolving the query with Scientific outlook. 

The secretion of gastric juices plays a vital role during digestion.

Through Mastication a little digestion of food occurs in mouth, by the action of salivary amylase (a digestive enzyme present in saliva) the semi digested & semisolid food enters Esophagus. Passing down the Esophagus the food enters through the Cardiac Sphincter (a valve like opening present at the junction of esophagus & fundus of stomach) into the most dilatable portion of alimentary canal known as STOMACH. Stomach acts as a churner and a temporary storage organ & prepares food for intestinal digestion. The surface of inner membrane is covered with numerous tiny ducts from many gastric glands.

Now, we come back to the main point of discussion:

WHY-WE MUST EAT FOOD IN CALM & COZY ATMOSPHERE… AWAY FROM

WORRIES & ANXIETY…??

"भोजन और भजन एकांत और शांतिमय स्थान पर करना  चाहिए..”

Secretion of gastric juices is quite important for DIGESTION

🍚The process is both-nervous stimulated & a chemical process.

🍚Mere sight or smell of well prepared food triggers the gastric secretion.

🍚This period remains for about 20-30 minutes. At this time absorption of nutrients is at its peak. This is what can be known as period of craving for food.

🍚Chemicals too stimulate secretion.

Some chemicals present in food, interact with the walls of stomach and liberate an HORMONE called GASTRIN. Gastrin is responsible for the

feedback mechanism of  

SYMPATHETIC NERVOUS SYSTEM(SNS) & CENTRAL NERVOUS SYSTEM (CNS).

Gastrin plays a Vital role in feedback for release of more of Gastric juices into alimentary canal.

🍚When emotions are at peak (especially anger, fear or distress) the Sympathetic nervous system is affected. Mainly secretion of Adrenalin is responsible for imbalance in feedback mechanism. Generally lowering of Gastrin secretion occurs.

This may result in-

🍛Rejection of food by stomach.

Partial digestion & partial absorption of nutrients.

🍛Loss of appetite.

🍛Feeling of butterflies in stomach due to contraction of stomach walls.

🍛Unusual dilation of cardiac sphincter..

 This can result in regurgitation of food & HEARTBURN.

🍛An imbalance in release of gastric juice –Hypo-secretion can result in indigestion.

🍛Hyper-secretion of Gastric juice may result in Gorging of food due to more feeling of hunger.

🍛Hyper-secretion may also lead to acidity due to mental stress/ tension.

We can conclude, that the mood during Food intake is important factor to ensure proper digestion & absorption of Nutrients.

Even, the speed of eating food will affect the amount of Food intake. One can eat more food, if he eats quickly, during 20-30 minutes(ie. during-Period of craving for food) when the secretion of Gastrin & other Digestive juices is at the PEAK.

One more reason to say -"Our ancestors had a scientific outlook towards life!!" 

May be, they never explained all the reasons. But they were aware of the fact that Mood during food intake effects, on amount of food intake, its digestion & absorption.

TURMERIC- The Golden Spice

Turmeric, sometimes called golden spice has many health benefits.

The commonly used spice in most of the Indian curries has extraordinary effect in improving our immune system and in aiding digestion & in maintaining proper mental & physical health.

Curcumin is the main active ingredient in turmeric.
It has powerful anti-inflammatory effects and is a very strong antioxidant.
It helps our body to fight foreign invaders and also has a role in repairing damage.

Anti-inflammatory
curcumin is a bioactive substance that fights inflammation at the molecular level
Curcumin delivers a one-two mechanism against free radicals. It blocks them directly, then stimulates your body's own antioxidant defenses.

Powerful Anti- Oxidant
Oxidative damage is believed to be one of the mechanisms behind aging and many diseases.
Curcumin is a potent antioxidant that can neutralize free radicals due to its chemical structure
Curcumin boosts the activity of your body's own antioxidant enzymes.

Pain reliever
The spice is reputed to relieve arthritis pain.

Improves Liver Function
Antioxidant effect of turmeric appears to be so powerful that it may stop your liver from being damaged by toxins.

Aids digestion
Its anti inflammatory in nature.
Reduces gut inflammation and improves gut permeability and hence helps in healthy digestion.

Prevents Amnesia
Curcumin boosts levels of the brain hormone BDNF, which increases the growth of new neurons and fights various degenerative processes in your brain.

Helpful in Heart disease
Curcumin improves the function of the endothelium and is a potent anti-inflammatory agent and antioxidant.

Helpful in treating Hypertension
Its consumption results in thinning of blood like in the case of warfarin.
Thus turmeric can be associated with  lowered cholesterol  levels and lowered blood pressure.

Reduces risk of cancer
Curcumin leads to several changes on the molecular level that may help prevent and perhaps even treat cancer.

Helpful in Preventing Alzheimer's Disease.

Curcumin is a potent anti-inflammatory compound, it makes sense that it may help with arthritis.

Prevents & cures Depression
Depression is also linked to reduced levels of brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF) and a shrinking hippocampus, a brain area with a role in learning and memory.
Curcumin boosts BDNF levels, potentially reversing some of these changes.
There are evidences that curcumin can boost the brain neurotransmitters serotonin and dopamine.

Anti ageing agent & Aids longevity
Plays a role in delaying aging. Effective preventive food.
Due to its many positive health effects.
Turmeric added to food, aids longevity.

Curcumin has so many health benefits and is present in TURMERIC , is absorbed in the body when combined with fats or peperine present in pepper.
That is probably the scientific reason of the spicy & oily Indian recipes.
Which over the years have been rejected by those who don't respect their own heritage.
Fats are needed moderately.
Remember, Dry, fat-less, boiled or roasted food, only salads & crash diets are not healthy diets. Our ancestors were masters in combining foods and spices to get best food value of any recipe.

e.g. I hope we all know "Haldi wala doodh" is a common home remedy of cough & cold or any internal injury.
Kachhi Haldi ki sabji is common food in Rajasthan.
From dal to any curry ghee & haldi are essential ingredient of Indian recipe.

Trust their knowledge and if you have doubts please analyse everything scientifically.
After analysing each combination food. I get assurance that our forefathers were genius!!
So just to look smart & innovative...
Please, don't temper your age old recipes. 
Don't reject the traditional foods.

SHANKHNAAD

Shankhnaad is very scientific way of  creating positive & conductive atmosphere.

शङ्खं चन्द्रार्क दैवत्यं मध्ये वरुण दैवतम् ।
पृष्ठे प्रजापति विद्यात् अग्रे गङ्गा सरस्वती ॥

Meaning:
In Shankha abides the Chandra Moon & Surya Devatas, and in its middle the Varuna Devata. On its back abides Prajapati & on its front Ganga & Saraswati;

त्वं पुरा सागरोत्पन्नः विष्णुना विधृतः करे ।
पूजितः सर्व देवैश्च पाञ्चजन्य नमोऽस्तु ते ॥

Meaning:
In former times You rose from the Sea and was held by Vishnu in His Hand, You are worshipped by all the Devas; Salutations to Panchajanya.

 त्रैलोक्ये यानि तीर्थानि वासुदेवस्य च आज्ञया ।
शङ्खे तिष्ठन्ति विप्रेन्द्र तस्माच्छङ्खं प्रपूजयेत् ॥

Meaning:
Whatever Tirthas are there in the Three Worlds, by the command of Vasudeva, they abide inside the Shankha, O best of Wise men; Therefore Shankha is to be Worshipped.

पाञ्चजन्याय विद्महे पवमानाय धीमहि ।
तन्नः शङ्खः प्रचोदयात् ॥

Meaning:
Let us contemplate on Panchajanya (Shankha of Sri Krishna) and meditate on Pavamana, May that Shankha (i.e. Sound of Shankha) awaken our Consciousness.

Significance of Shankhnaad
Shankha is believed to have originated from Samudra Manthan. Shankhnaad- shankh is blown in order to get rid of negative energy and evil spirits.

Shankhnaad-The sound from the Shankh is associated with the sacred syllable ‘Om’ which is believed to be the first sound of creation.
It is symbolic to beginning of any good work. Its believed to be the purest form of sound which ushers in new hope.
When the Shankh is blown, the primordial sound of "Om" emanates from it. This eternal sound is the origin of all Vedas. All knowledge enshrined in the Vedas is an elaboration of the omnipresent sublime sound of Om. It was this sound that was chanted by the Lord before manifesting the cosmos. It represents the creation.

Shankhnaad enhances the positive psychological vibrations such as courage, hope, optimism, willpower  and bliss can be felt by all around.
Leaving aside the mythology, even if you hold the Shankha near your ear, you can hear a humming sound of ocean in it. This is actually a natural vibration or cosmic energy of Earth which gets magnified on entering the conch shell. Isn’t it interesting?

Renowned Scientist J.C. Bose has proved that the harmful invisible virus/insects/bacteria etc disappear by the Shankhnaad.
As soon as the Shankh is blown the frequencies of divine energy (Shakti) are emitted into atmosphere. These energy frequencies are seen in red colour. Along with these energy frequencies yellow circles of chaitanya are also projected in the atmosphere. You can also see the pink particles of Bliss being emitted in the atmosphere.
JC Bose further adds- "This increases the proportion of shakti (cosmic energy), chaitanya & anand in the environment and that is why the negative energies get distressed and run away.  Another speciality of Shankh is that the vibrations emanating due to Shankhnaad destroys the disease causing germs in the atmosphere".

Shankhnaad makes the atmosphere pure & conductive for the spiritual growth of the individual.
The moment Shankh is blown our brain is emptied of all thoughts. Invariably we will enter state of Trans state where we are very receptive. This "Trans state" is the one with awareness. Only way to awaken you is Shankhnaad.

Blowing of Shankh improves the lung capacity & improves respiratory system.

Stammering children can be corrected by regularly blowing the shankh .

I'll regularly blow Shankh atleast thrice a day. Will you???


Initially if you are unable to blow Shankh. Then listen Shankhnaad by following the
YouTube Link-https://m.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=B1Ct9s9uQ_0#menu

देव वंदना

भगवन पुरातन पुरुष हो तुम, विश्व के आधार हो,
हो आदिदेव, तथैव उत्तम धाम, अपरम्पार हो।।
ज्ञाता तुम्ही हो, जानने के योग्य भी, भगवंत हो,
संसार में, व्यापे हुए हो, देव देव अनंत हो।।
तुम वायु यम पावक वरुण एवं तुम्ही राकेश हो,
ब्रह्मा तथा उनके पिता भी, आप ही अखिलेश हो।।
हे देव देव, प्रणाम देव, प्रणाम सहस्त्रों बार हो
फिर फिर प्रणाम, प्रणाम नाथ, प्रणाम बारम्बार हो।।
सानंद सन्मुख और पीछे से प्रणाम सुरेश हो,
हरि बार बार प्रणाम, चारों ओर से, सर्वेश हो।।
है वीर्य शौर्य अनंत बलधारी, अतुल बलवंत हो,
व्यापे हुए सब में, इसीसे सर्व हे, भगवंत हो।।
अच्युत हंसाने के लिए, आहार और विहार में,
सोते अकेले, बैठते सब में किसी व्यवहार में।।
सबकी क्षमा हम मांगते, जो कुछ हुआ, अपराध हो,
संसार में तुम, अतुल अपरम्पार, और अगाध हो।।
सारे चराचर के, पिता हैं आप, जग आधार हैं,
हैं आप, गुरुओं के गुरु, अति पूज्य और महान हैं।।
त्रैलोक्य में, तुमसा प्रभु, कोई, कहीं भी, हैं नहीं,
अनुपम अतुल्य प्रभाव बढ़कर, कौन फिर होगा कहीं।।
इस हेतु वंदन, योग, ईश शरीर चरणों में किया,
हम आपको,करते प्रणाम प्रसन्न करने के लिए।।
ज्यों तात सुत के, प्रिय प्रिया के, मित्र सहचर अर्थ हैं,
अपराध मेरा, आप त्योंही, सहने हेतु समर्थ हैं..
अपराध मेरा आप त्योंही सहने हेतु समर्थ हैं।।

निष्क्रियता त्यागो!!

Recent cartoon by Sudhir Tailang ji

निष्क्रियता त्यागो!! शासकों जागो !!! 

आज फिर से "मौन-व्रत" टूटा,
कहा-"ऐसा अपराध ना हो दोबारा!!"

हम कोई ठोस कदम नहीं उठायेंगे 
हम कोई कानूनी संशोधन नहीं लायेंगे 
मांगेंगे इन्साफ संसद में-चीख-चीख कर 
पर, ऐसे अपराधो के खिलाफ,आवाजों को दबायेंगे 
और फिर सरकार में बैठ चिल्लायेंगे - ऐसा  अपराध ना हो दोबारा!!
जन चेतना को, जन आक्रोश को 
विद्रोह बताकर, लाठियां बरसाएंगे 
आंसू गैस के गोले चलाएंगे 
जन प्रतिनिधि होते हुए भी 
जनता की भावनाओ को ना समझने का, ढोंग रचाएंगे!!
जब जनता के हाथ पैर टूट जायेंगे,
हम एक बैठक कर उनके नेता से मिलने की झूठी आस जगायेंगे !!
ऐसे अन्दोलन का कोई नेता ना पाकर मन ही मन मुस्कुराएंगे 
और फिर सरकार में बैठ चिल्लायेंगे - ऐसा  अपराध ना हो दोबारा  !!
अबला, कह कहकर नारी को सहमायेंगे 
जगह जगह सिर्फ कैमरे लगायेंगे 
और अपराध हो ने के बाद
अपराधियों को पकड़ने की वीर गाथाये गायेंगे!
कोई पुख्ता कानून ना लायेंगे 
जब अपराधी बेल पर छूट जायेंग,
हम  फिर सरकार में बैठ चिल्लायेंगे - ऐसा  अपराध ना हो दोबारा  !!
कहो तो, पीड़ित का बार बार पुलिस बयान करवाएंगे 
उसके परिवार के,मन में, कानून के लम्बे चक्करो का डर बैठाएंगे! 
न्याय के मंदिर कहे जानेवाले न्यायालो में बैठे
न्यायाधीशों के हाथ बांध-उन्हें बस पूजनीय मूरत बनायेंगे!
कोई फ़ास्ट ट्रैक कोर्ट नहीं बनायेंगे
पीड़ित की वर्षों चप्पलें घिसवायेंगे 
पीड़ित का अगर आक्रोश फूटा 
तो उसी पे,न्यायलय व देव तुल्य न्यायाधीशों की 
अवमानना का केस चलाएंगे !!
और जब अपराधी पीड़ित की विवशता पे मुस्कायेंगे 
हम फिर सरकार में बैठ चिल्लायेंगे - ऐसा अपराध ना हो दोबारा  !!
यूँही चलता रहेगा क्रम,सोच सोच महलों में गर बैठे नेता, इठालायेंगे 
वो दिन दूर नहीं जब जनता गद्दी छीन 
स्वयं के, सामाजिक और नियम-कानून बनाएगी 
ऐसी रुत में, वो दिन दूर नहीं जब  ऐसी व्यवस्था चर्मराएगी 
कि कोई लाठी, कोई बन्दूक,कोई इमरजेंसी,  

उन्हें ना रोक पाएगी !!
इससे पहेले शासको जागो , समाज के ठेकेदारों जागो !!
अपनी यह निष्क्रियता त्यागो!!
लाओ मिलकर कानून ऐसा जिससे,
फिर कलंकित न हो भारत माँ का चेहरा !!
लाओ मिलकर ऐसी कानून व्यवस्था,
जिससे अपराधियों के मन में हो भय घनेरा !
और फिर सब मिलकर दोहराएंगे :-
भारत माँ के आँचल में सुरक्षित है हर नागरिक, हर अबला !!
हमारे सभ्य समाज में होगा नहीं, ऐसा अपराध फिर दोबारा !!
कहना नहीं पड़ेगा फिर यूँही, दिखावे के लिए 
"ऐसा अपराध ना हो दोबारा!!"

Caste Exogamy ( Intercaste marriages) may be beneficial, Genetically !! Why not break-Caste barriers & have efficient offsprings??

Every family member contributes to the Gene pool..
Lets have a larger "gene pool" with variety of traits..
Probability of finding good Personal traits in Progeny will be Higher!!

Genetics explains that family lineage always contributes to one's personality. Everything is inherited by the progeny from previous generations through Genes. A wider & varied Gene pool will help in having Healthier Progeny..

There is a myth that "pure blood" or we can say, children of people from same caste or genetically identical groups are better in terms of Health & intelligence.

In societies, like the one, that is prevalent in our country. People follow caste system  and argue that Marriages done in the own closed group are beneficial for the preserverance or endurance of the Family Lineage or  VANSH..Children born to parents from so-called Superior caste/blood would be Superior in terms of Health & Intelligent..

But scientific studies indicate all together different scenario.. 

Nowadays, Racial mixing is the inevitable result of globalization.

Scientists are fascinated by theories that say mixing of genes/blood leads to a genetic advantage!!

Lets analyze- 
When people from different human populations marry – does it really brings the benefits; by reducing the number of recessive gene-pairs ambiguities??.

Humans have 23 pairs of chromosomes containing about 30,000 genes. Only the sex chromosomes break the ‘pairs’ rule. An individual who has two identical copies of a gene is called a "Homozygote", while someone who has two copies that differ is called a "Heterozygote".

When, different races or say people from different CASTE are responsible for procreation. Then obviously birth of HYBRID or a HETROZYGOTE offspring will take place. 

A differing gene pair in heterozygote gives advantage n extra flexibility & adaptability to environmental circumstances. So, resultant off-springs will be genetically efficient & healthier.
Its a well known & scientifically proven fact that HYBRIDS are better-genetically and Hetrozygote or the offsprings of people with different genes n traits are better in terms of :-

• Survival & Life expectancy,
  
• Adaptability to physical or Social environment,
• Cognitive development ,
• Motor development,
• Intelligence & Intelligence Quotient(I.Q.)
• Immunity(especially cell mediated immunity) etc.
• Also, the recessive birth defects are less likely in people with different genes, ie. hetrozygotes.

Sociological Approach:-
Do we ever think why there were social norms related to "Gotra Exogamy"??
Earlier, social structure wasn’t that broad. Endogamy(marrying in close relations) would have been an easier choice.

But then too- HINDU marriage norms & our Shaastras insisted on Incest Taboo & Gotra-Exogamy .

"Incest taboo" is norm that prohibits practices of sexual relations between relatives. Sometimes relations between clan-members are excluded, even when no traceable genealogical relations exist.

 Exogamy is the custom of marrying outside a specified group of people to which a person belongs. In addition to blood relatives, marriage to members of a clan,kin or specific group are forbidden.

In Hindus Gotra exogamy is prevalent through out eras.

Hinduism speaks of incest in abhorrent terms. Hindus are fearful of the bad effects of incest and thus practice strict rules. Marriages within the gotra ie. "Swagotra marriages" are banned under the rule of exogamy in the traditional matrimonial system. People within the gotra are regarded as kin. i.e. Marriage between two people whose parents are related paternally up to 7 generations was prohibited. 

{Gotra is transferred down the male lineage while the Gotra of a female changes upon marriage. i.e upon marriage a woman belongs to her husband's Gotra and no longer belongs to her father's Gotra.

In that case, if only single Gotra is considered. There may be marriage between maternal Cousins; which is incest.}
Hence, atleast marriage with a person having same Gotra as of the original Gotras of all 4 grandparents is prohibited.

Human societies insisted on exogamy (outbreeding) because procreating with individuals who are more closely related means progeny may be more likely to suffer from genetic defects caused by inbreeding.

Inbreeding is the reproduction from the mating of two genetically related parents. It results in increased homozygosity, which can increase the chances of offspring being affected by recessive or deleterious traits. This generally leads to a decreased fitness of a population, which is called "Inbreeding depression"

Inbreeding or endogamy may result in a far higher phenotypic expression of deleterious recessive genes within a population than would normally be expected. As result-generations are more likely to show physical and health defects, including:

• Lowered intelligence & IQ
• Increased genetic disorders
• Fluctuating facial asymmetry
• Lower birth rate
• Higher infant mortality
• Reduced fertility both in litter size and sperm viability
• Slower growth rate
• Slower cognitive development.
• Less adaptability
• Reduced immunity.
• Lowered emotional development.

The reduced genetic diversity that results from inbreeding means a species reduced environmental adaptability. A narrow range of certain immune systems genes in a population increases vulnerability to infectious diseases.Species may become Endangered.
eg. Parsis in India have reduced in numbers; due to smaller initial population size & inbreeding in closely related people.

Anthropological & Psychological approach :-  Stress on benefits of Exogamy...

Levi-Strauss’s alliance theory-The hypothesis of a "marriage-alliance" points out towards the necessary interdependence of various families & lineages. 

Weddings are seen as a form of communication.Alliance theory tries to understand the basic questions about inter-individual relations, or what constitutes society.

Alliance theory is based on the incest taboo: according to it, only this universal prohibition of incest pushes human groups towards exogamy.

Other anthropologists like Margaret Mead argue that nuclear family incest avoidance can be explained in terms of the ecological, demographic, and economic benefits of exogamy.

Westermarck effect, or reverse sexual imprinting, is a hypothetical psychological effect through which people who live in close domestic proximity during the first few years of their lives become desensitized to later sexual attraction.

Anthropologists insist that Incest taboo & Exogamy helps in mingling of cultures & acts as a unifying force amongst groups, castes or societies. Thus SOCIAL INTERACTION through marriage & progeny strengthens the SOCIAL BONDS.

Genetical & pathological Approach:-

Genetic disorders-Autosomal recessive disorders occur in individuals who have two copies of the gene for a particular recessive genetic mutation. Both parents will be carriers of the disease gene.As relatives share a higher proportion of their genes than do unrelated people, it is more likely that related parents will both be carriers of the same recessive gene, and therefore their children are at a higher risk of a genetic disorder.

Some preliminary evidence support effects on many such disorders including:-Cardiovascular diseases and Cancers.

Many previously not identified genetic disorders have first been recognized in highly endogamous communities and the mutation causing the disease may be unique to such communities.

One of the most famous example of a genetic disorder aggravated by "Royal family intermarriage" was House of Habsburg,. Royal family intermarriages were often practiced to protect property, wealth and position. 

The Family faced the aftermaths of Endogamy & of being Homozygotic.Famous in this case is the "Mandibular prognathism"or Habsburger (Unter) Lippe (Habsburg jaw/Habsburg lip/Austrian lip)-

a typical disorder for many Habsburg relatives over a period of six centuries. 

The condition progressed through the generations to the point that the last of the Spanish Habsburgs, Charles II of Spain, could not properly chew his food. Besides the jaw deformity, Charles II also had a huge number of other genetic physical, intellectual, sexual, and emotional problems.
Two different genetic disorders: Combined pituitary hormone deficiency and Distal renal tubular acidosis can explain most of the complex clinical profile of this king, including his impotence/infertility which in the last instance led to the extinction of the dynasty.

• Another famous genetic disease that circulated among European royalty(including Queen Victoria's Parents) was Hemophilia.

Heterozygous advantage
It describes the case in which the heterozygote genotype has a higher relative fitness than either the homozygote dominant or homozygote recessive genotype. The specific case of heterozygote advantage is due to a single locus known as overdominance.

When two populations of any sexual organism are separated and kept isolated from each other, the frequencies of deleterious mutations in the two populations will differ over time, by genetic drift.

It is highly unlikely, that the same deleterious mutations will be prevalent in both populations after a long period of separation. Since loss-of-function mutations tend to be recessive ; given that dominant mutations of this type generally prevent the organism from reproducing and thereby passing the gene on to the next generation.

The result of any "CROSS" between the two populations will be fitter than the parent.

Heterozygote advantage is a major underlying mechanism for heterosis, or "hybrid vigor", which is the improved or increased function of any biological quality in a hybrid offspring.

Genetically transmitted disease which can be prevented by HETEROZYGOSITY

1. Sickle-cell anemia-A genetic disorder that is caused by the presence of 2 incompletely recessive alleles. When sufferer's RBC’s are exposed to low-oxygen conditions, the cells lose their healthy round shape and become sickle-shaped. This deformation results in loss of capacity of RBC’s to carry Oxygen, depriving parts of body,of oxygen. When untreated, a person suffers from anemia or painful bouts, often causing damage to internal organs & strokes. The disease results in premature death.
2. Cystic fibrosis- CF, is an autosomal recessive hereditary disease of the lungs, sweat glands and digestive system. The disorder is caused by the malfunction of the CFTR protein, which controls inter-membrane transport of chloride ions, which is vital to maintaining equilibrium of water in the body. The malfunctioning protein causes viscous mucus to form in the lungs and intestinal tract.Earlier,Child born with CF had a life expectancy of only a few years, but modern medicine has made it possible for these people to live into adulthood. However, even in these individuals- CF typically causes sterility. It is the most common genetic disease among people of Europeans.The presence of a single CF mutation may influence survivorship of people affected by diseases involving loss of body fluid, typically due to diarrhea. The most common of these maladies is cholera.
3. Triosephosphate isomerase-TPI is a central enzyme of Glycolysis.In humans, certain mutations within this enzyme affect the dimerisation of this protein are causal for a rare disease, triosephosphate isomerase deficiency. A mutations, which inactivate the enzyme.Null alleles formed are lethal when inherited homozygously .
4.  Resistance to hepatitis C virus infection-increased consanguinity in a population increases its susceptibility to infectious pathogens such as tuberculosis and hepatitis whereas Genetic heterozygosity in humans provides increased resistance to certain viral infections. 
5. MHC(Major histocompatibility complex) heterozygosity -Heterozygosity at MHC loci results in more alleles to fight against a wider variety of diseases, possibly increasing survival rates against a wider range of infectious diseases. Thus results in High immunity.
6. Even Diabetes, Night-blindness, some Cancers, Hemophilia, Lactose intolerance , Gluten allergy etc. are said to be genetically dependent diseases.

We may conclude:-

Hybrids are more efficient as they perpetuate two cultures & two genetically  different lineages.

As, Marriage is socially accepted & sanctioned way of establishing a "Family of procreation"!!
It's psyhcological desire of everyone,to have efficient progeny..All want a Healthy Vansh & vanshaz..

Then ,

Why don't we take a step forward-to have healthy Off-springs??

Why don't we search, mates, across the closed group boundaries or the closed caste system??
Why we have a taboo on intermixing of castes?? 
Why don't we prefer INTERCASTE MARRIAGES??

I guess, there shouldn’t be a fear of loosing cultural identity...

As dominant genes never loose their identity by genetic drift.. Similarly Good cultural TRAITS will never disappear by social unification! 
Days of Varna system are gone.. There is no need of that strict social stratification & division of Karmas..

Accept EXOGAMY..!! 

Not only Gotra exogamy but accept CASTE EXOGAMY (intercaste marriages)!!

Racial mixing is going to be beneficial for upcoming generations!!

Break the caste barriers!!
Imagine a future Society with Progeny which will be -
Healthier - SOCIALLY, PHYSICALLY & PSYCHOLOGICALLY!!

Diwali is best occasion to Take a Noble OATH!!

Lets take an Oath this Diwali!!

"We all must Say BIG NO to wasteful money expenditure on Crackers,enormous Electric lighting & unnecessary exchange of gifts."

Diwali is a Festival which is related to Faith n noble feeling (आस्था,श्रद्धा और विश्वास से जुड़ा पर्व है ये )

Please don't destroy its beauty, its meaning.. 

दीपावली = दीपों  की  कतार.. Row of lamps were lit to welcome Lord Ram! Who had an ideology of good governance- The RamRajya..

Festivals are meant to strengthen social bond.. to enjoy & were associated with social welfare.

"Deepako ki jhilmil is more aesthetic than loads of electric bulbs glaring our eyes". 

Just calculate, how much money, do we waste ; during this festive season on Crackers?How much we add to pollution-both noise & air pollution?Also how much we add to undesirable accidents?? 

See OPD/emergency of hospitals.You can find out, single mishappening caused by being careless with firework or by drink & drive phenomenon-burns many hopes in these two-three days! 

If you don't believe-be with doctors in emergency OPD.

I'm not against fireworks.. If someone really enjoys Crackers.. Then best way is we should do it at common place..on contributory basis.. So all haves n have-nots may enjoy it.. Ensure that,no more, children with less resources in their parents' hands, feel left out.

Just think.. आकाश तो सबका है .. सब आतिशबाजी का मज़ा ले सकते  हैं - फिर यह बड़े crackers  चलाकर, रहीस दिखने की होड़ कैसी और क्यूँ ?

We all run after expensive gifts to express our emotions during diwali time.. Tell me can't we express emotions with words.. by just being there to celebrate the festival together? 

Then, we waste money on expensive adulterated sweets.. Which upset both our stomach & budget.

Can't we prepare few simple sweets at home, ourselves? Whats wrong in traditional sweets..?

Think, How many of us eat sweets, without a feeling of suspicion of getting ill next day.. How many of us don't know about the hiked level of food adulteration during festive season.. Then?whats the use in bringing home Mava etc..  फिर हम क्यों अपनों को यह ज़हर, सुंदर थाली में परोस के देते हैं ? शकरपारे में भी, रिश्तों की मिठास बनाये रखने की ताकत होती है :)

We go through prolonged Power-cuts before diwali time, every year..Our country is deficit in Power sector.. Good, if we save electricity through Power cut.. But whats the use of wasting this hard saved Power over a long period of say 2-3 months on lighting, in just 2-3 days? Why we do that ?

दीपकों की झिलमिल से जगमगाती रंगोली looks more aesthetic than loads of electric bulbs,glairing our eyes. Isn't it?

भावनाए पैसों से, चमक धमक से नहीं व्यक्त की जाती ! भावनाए दिल से, चहेरे की मुस्कान और आँखों की चमक से भी व्यक्त की जा सकती हैं और हाँ उसके लिए - We won't need money!! 

In modern world everything is instant,readymade-many bring sticker & paste on floor.. क्या रंगोली की और मांडने की जगह कभी यह plastic stickers ले  सकते  हैं? यहाँ भी, संस्कृति को सीखने में कष्ट होता है!  दिवाली फिर भी प्रिय पर्व है ! nice!  Why can't we make रंगोली और मंडाना?हम इतने भौतिकवादी क्यूँ हो गए हैं? भावनाए भी कभी बाज़ार से खरीद कर, किसी के या कहिये लक्ष्मी जी के स्वागत के लिए लायी जा सकती है?

Gifts or say(Informal Bribe to maintain relations) is biggest expenditure,most of us do during festive season.. Why?

Isn't this a kind of corruption? If we want to give gifts then why to well off people..? Why to people who hold position/chair? त्यौहार पर gift देना ही है तो किसी needy को,  किसी गरीब को देना चाहिए ना!

Last but not the least ...

झुक कर किसी बड़े से आशीर्वाद लेना हो तो, हम सब hesitate karte hai पर we enjoy sending text messages to far-far off relations.. Why?Can't we be little humble.क्या हिन्दुस्तानी सभ्यता और संस्कार इतने बुरे है ? क्या राम-राम कहने में हमें इतनी शर्म आती है? अगर हम बड़ो का चरण स्पर्श  कर लेंगे, तो क्या छोटे  हो जायेंगे ?Why- Happy Diwali...Why Hi , Hey?
भावनाओ को हिन्दुस्तानी तरह व्यक्त करके देखिये ! भावनाए प्रकट करने के लिए तोफ्हों की ज़रुरत ही नहीं पड़ेगी!

Gifts only create fuss , unless you don't know the choice of the person,you are going to gift something.You are just-going to invite a trouble.

Friends, we may add on to this list-many more useless expenditures we do during festive season..

I request all.. Lets take an oath today! We will not waste money! हम हमारा hard earned money किसी अच्छे  काम में खर्च करेंगे - आडम्बरों और दिखावे में बिलकुल नहीं !

We will save energy & money.. We will enlighten more homes around.. We may spend on medicine,food, clothing, education for poor & have-nots. हम सब मिलकर अपने आस पास के लोगो को भी खुशियाँ बांटेंगे ! 

इस दिवाली किसी गरीब की आँखें,हमारी शानो-शौकत देख नम नहीं होने दे! कोशिश करें की उनकी  आँखों में हमारी वजह से,संतोष की चमक छलक उठे !

Though we can't eradicate all discrepancies but  Atleast we can try to reduce them .बूँद बूँद से ही घट भरता है!

Come & contribute your share to create a beautiful cummunity & world around!

Join hands ! 

Spread the word!
यह ही धर्मं है, यह ही हिंदुत्व है - यह ही सदाचार और मानवता भी!!

सबकी दीवाली मंगलमय हो ! 

सबके घर 'आशा के दीपों' से रोशन हो उठें !!!

Superspecialized & Pivot Role-THE HOMEMAKER . It's a matter of Pride!

We often talk about women's liberalization & equality. Thus to provide women better education & job opportunities, they are given reservation. This made them-self reliant, confident and economically independent. But does it really help to fight back women exploitation? Has this given her moral support & emotional security?

If we see other side of the coin...
Modern woman is being rather sandwiched between the dual responsibilities. She is being dragged by the over demanding goals as a home-maker and a professional. Work related stress, burnouts, mental exhaustion and molestations are never a deniable aspect in this competitive world. What does she gets in return? Isn’t she really being exploited NOW?

 Do we feel that real needy girls are able to grab these jobs? Sincerely speaking it’s not the case.

Girls with high status family background, girls who are manipulative , who are ready to compromise a lot have better chances of grabbing jobs than those who are well qualified, needy and more deserving.

Don’t you think this is reducing the job opportunities for more needy males and creating job scarcity in a society with a grave problem of Unemployment? Aren’t males still the BREAD EARNER, who contribute major part of their income to sustain a family?

Hope you won’t disagree if I say that a girl’s income is being mostly spent on luxuries than on necessities. This extravagance & high purchasing power of few leads to inflation in market and contributes to dissatisfaction and frustration of many have-nots in society.

Resultant is that more girls are being compelled to grab a job of any kind & at any cost to maintain the so called “standard of living” rather the “standard of show-off.”

Most of them want to work either because of social pressure or because it’s today’s trend.

   Can I ask why?  Is this only ultimate motive of being educated? Or is this a way to prove ourselves liberal & civilized, or it’s a disguised way to get dowry in instalments by marrying a working women ?

Do we really want that girls should be independent? 
OK  fine, if girls feel independent & equal to man.

If they are equal then why they want RESERVATION? Why they want to leave office earlier to reach home early? Why want posting in home town? Why rebates in taxation?

Then where goes their big fat "Ego"? Where disappears the "feeling of disgrace to be called different from male counterparts", when they beg for favours because they are weak & delicate..?Isn’t this a PARADOX?

Why can’t a well qualified lady accept the PIVOT role in society of being a HOME-MAKER? Why this role is being looked down?

Is it just because she doesn’t earn name, fame & money in terms of cash: formally?

I’m not against girl’s jobs but do wives of bureaucrats & businessman need to work? They work to kill there boredom? They want themselves to be busy outside home..Why?Is being complementary to man so disgraceful?Is working in a team called Family so uninteresting? Is there nothing to be done at home? Are household jobs so down trodden?

 As a Home-Maker a lady contributes a lot to society. She adds to family’s REAL-INCOME: i.e. the money that she saves due to her contribution as work. She can prevent phenomena of broken homes, juvenile delinquency, crimes, distress, suicides & episodes of depression. She can provide a healthy atmosphere at home to enhance the work efficiency of family members, she transmits our heritage – the culture-to young-ones, she socializes human infant into responsible future citizen.
HER specialized work area can’t be overlooked & ignored.
Her contribution can not be underestimated.

It’s Matter of appreciation & proud to be a Successful Home Maker!

Really try once you would get lot of satisfaction while fulfilling the demands of family members. All boredom would disappear..!

Are we Nurturing Human Infants into unemotional Robots????

Aren’t we encountering with a typical society which hasn’t changed in terms of being socialized?   

A society which is creating disinterested,   self-centred, egoistic individuals with "Let it be attitude "

Both parents are busy like west,in achieving their career threshold.Children are being groomed by themselves.

Its mere matter of SERENDIPITY-what type of citizen will society achieve in future. 
Mom is away & maid has taken her place. Child is learning what maid feels is right.  From their childhood children learn bossing over elders (servant). Is this an age to teach child the distinction of classes?

We wanted literate mother with hypothesis that an Educated lady Educates home. So, now we need to educate Maids not Mothers. Is today's mom there to educate her child or she is busy earning name, money, fame & identity? Does she have time to see to child’s emotional and little requirements?

Love or "Mamta" what we call is more superficial. It is being discussed in Kitty parties & office pantry. Girls read books on happy parenting... but not see back into past, to find what their moms did.  
Child is being rushed to a psychiatrist to give him Kangaroo Therapy or the Hug Therapy to give him emotional security but Mom won't hug him right with her own arms. Aren't we crazy?
Most parent count on money they have spent on their child but not time. Child has most of toys but no one to play with them.
Would be there an emotional bonding between parents and child???

Children sit idle killing their time in front of television, watching daily soap operas which portray relations based mainly on greed for Money,strive for Power & Sex. No logic behind it, no reality of life.
What "Sanskars" are we providing?
Making the situation worse the reality shows are adding to the expectations from child. More & more competition has overburdened the child’s mind. Most parents want their child to be at top as ALL-ROUNDER , a SUPER HUMAN! What about average children? Aren’t their little achievements over shadowed by our over demanding nature?

On education front nothing useful is being taught. Most youngsters find it embarrassing, when they have to use there mother tongue- "THE MATRIBHASHA". It’s fashion to speak broken Hindi to show you are modern & literate. Isn’t it shameful for us? 
Children busy cramming lesson from "Modern passbooks" which we often call the study material or a "Refresher"! 

Is this an education which is required to create a responsible citizen?
Most of us are merely literate. We aren't including much, what we have read into our lives or attitude. Why can’t we educate our youngsters & ourselves?

Weren’t we happy with our Indian hierarchial set-up of society & type of work division,amongst sexes? Where parents were rearing & nurturing their child very nicely.With little earning in terms of money & more in terms of emotions!

Where is that WE FEELING?For whom, are we putting,our efforts?What type of NEW generation, is ought to be there?What will we do with money? Only,we can gather a crowd around ourselves,on which we can never rely.

Is Career,Academics & Economic achievements are above all Social living?
WAS THIS INDIAN CULTURE? A culture which has always amused & attracted the attention of WEST.. Why are we copying losers of west...?

WAS THIS THE AIM OF LIBERALIZATION OF WOMEN?   

IS THIS A CREATION OF NEW WORLD or DISINTEGRATION OF "FAMILY"-THE BASIC UNIT OF SOCIETY???

Think aren’t we ourselves creating a world without emotions?
Are we not turning HUMAN INFANTS into an unemotional ROBOT with high output?

We have been best on emotional front & should be so for eras to come..!